Emfocus Baby Stories

“We didn’t get infected on purpose. Like all couples, we just longed to hold a healthy baby in our arms.” — Xiao Yu

This should have been a happy story about the fruits of love, but a routine premarital medical check cast a heavy shadow over Mr. Chen and Xiao Yu’s marriage. “Syphilis positive” — this diagnosis felt like a cold shackle, mercilessly separating them from the path to parenthood that ordinary couples take for granted.

1. Barriers on the Path to Parenthood: Being Rejected Again and Again

Mr. Chen and Xiao Yu met in their youth and shared a deep bond. A routine premarital examination struck them like a thunderbolt: both were diagnosed with syphilis. Although they received standard treatment and the spirochetes were effectively suppressed (converted to a serofixed state), syphilis antibodies (TPPA) remain positive for life, like an indelible mark.

When they decided to have a child, the harsh reality quickly became apparent.

“You should probably not consider having a child right now,” said one doctor coldly, without even looking up at them.

“Sorry, our laboratory doesn’t have the necessary protective conditions. We cannot handle your samples,” a clinic politely rejected them.

Some institutions even requested additional notarized documents, lengthy liability waivers, and exorbitant “isolation operation fees.” Beyond societal misunderstanding, they faced pressure and doubts from their own families:

“Why do you want a child? What about the risk of transmission?”
“With your condition, having a baby is not safe.”

During that long period, their hopes were repeatedly crushed. Late at night, Xiao Yu cried to her husband: “We just want a child of our own. Is that a crime?”

2. Finding Hope with Emfocus: Understanding, Not Rejection

On the brink of despair, they heard the name Emfocus in a support group for infected couples. With nothing to lose, they contacted Emfocus. On the other end of the line, the consultant did not question them or respond coldly. Instead, they gently said, “It’s okay. Let’s first review your situation.”

After a thorough understanding of their medical history, the Emfocus team immediately formulated a detailed infection-control and fertility plan, arranging IVF treatment abroad:

• Evaluation of medical condition and titers by infectious disease and reproductive specialists;

• Customized IVF plan with strict safety protocols;

• Egg retrieval, sperm preparation, embryo culture, and transfer all performed in isolated areas;

• Advanced contingency planning for potential risks with strict lab biosafety standards.

Meanwhile, Emfocus consultants and doctors had multiple in-depth conversations with them, transparently analyzing all possible risks, success rates, and pregnancy management plans.

“The doctor told us that as long as it’s properly managed, we have the right and the opportunity to become parents,” Xiao Yu said, finally feeling respected for the first time.

3. Between Doubt and Trust: Almost Missing the Miracle

After three months of preparation and treatment, they officially started the IVF cycle. The process was more complicated than for ordinary patients, with more tests and stricter procedures, yet every step progressed steadily.

As time went on, Xiao Yu’s anxiety grew. She almost daily asked the consultant:

“Are these medications really safe?”
“Can the lab truly isolate everything?”
“What if… I mean, what if it fails?”

Every member of the Emfocus team understood the trauma behind her anxiety and patiently explained, with detailed data and cases, to reassure them.

Even after the plan began, the deep-seated mistrust almost caused them to deviate from the protocol. Xiao Yu even searched online for “folk remedies” and “quick cures,” and some unofficial practitioners suggested stopping her medications for herbal alternatives. Emfocus doctors repeatedly advised: “Do not stop your medication. Your titers are not fully stable yet.” Anxiety led her to temporarily halt treatment, hoping to make her indicators “perfect.”

Three weeks later, retesting showed the titers had actually risen. Doctors had to urgently pause the cycle. That day, Xiao Yu cried in the clinic: “Will I never be able to become a mother?” An Emfocus consultant gently said: “You must trust science and trust us. Miracles take time, and require cooperation.”

With the team’s patient communication and support, Xiao Yu finally overcame her fear and returned to standardized treatment. Emfocus activated the highest-level lab biosafety protocols, ensuring that from egg retrieval and sperm optimization to embryo culture and transfer, all procedures were conducted in a fully isolated, sterile system.

When the ultrasound screen displayed a strong, steady heartbeat, the room fell silent except for the couple’s tears of joy. “We finally… finally heard our heartbeat,” they whispered.

After ten months of pregnancy, the moment of birth arrived. The cry of a healthy baby boy, weighing 3.5 kg, filled the delivery room. When the neonatal syphilis test came back negative, all their anxieties melted away.

This outcome is the strongest rebuttal to prejudice and the best reward for science and trust.

4. Emfocus’s Message: Infection is Not a Sin; Trust is Key

Their story is not only the fulfillment of a family but also a powerful proof: being infected is not a sin, and science has never rejected love and hope.

Emfocus International Reproductive Center wants every infected family to know: infected individuals are not deprived of the right to have a child. As long as the condition is controlled, treatment is followed, and assisted reproduction is performed under safe and controlled technical protocols, achieving healthy parenthood is entirely possible.

However, we must also emphasize that during this process, infected individuals should:

• Fully cooperate with medical arrangements;

• Maintain patient communication and trust professional judgment;

• Avoid anxiety and unilaterally altering treatment plans;

• Attend regular check-ups and take medications as prescribed to ensure every step is safe.

Medicine can mitigate risks, but cooperation and trust are the keys to bringing new life into the world. Infected individuals are not excluded from happiness—they too have the right to love, marriage, and children.

A love story beyond boundaries: a lesbian couple’s ten-year journey to motherhood!

Some say love is extraordinary—it transcends class, wealth, appearance, age, and even gender. Today’s story is about such a couple. They met in college, bonded over shared ideals, values, and dreams for the future, and have maintained a committed relationship for over a decade.

Ms. Wu, a lesbian, lives with her partner Ms. Lin in Guangzhou. From college sweethearts to working professionals, they’ve been together for ten years. Both are over 30, financially stable, and emotionally ready. As only children, they feared loneliness in the future, and after careful discussion, decided they wanted to have their own child.

In July 2022, they contacted Emfocus to pursue IVF, opting for the “A egg, B carry” approach, where Lin would carry the pregnancy. They chose a Chinese sperm donor to keep the child’s appearance closer to their own.

From August 2022 to March 2023, Wu traveled to Thailand for four egg retrieval sessions, collecting 13 eggs and successfully creating 5 high-quality embryos: 3 boys and 2 girls. They decided to transfer a female embryo. On April 15, 2023, the embryo was implanted in Lin.

After nine months of anticipation and care, Lin gave birth to a healthy, adorable baby with the support of Wu and her medical team. Reflecting on the experience, Wu said, “When we lie together, watching our baby sleep peacefully between us, it’s the first time we truly feel like a family. Raising a child together brings a happiness unlike anything we’ve felt before.”

Truly, the luckiest thing in life is a couple entering a new chapter together, sharing the joy and responsibility of raising a child—a dream realized and a bond strengthened.

Sometimes, gender is neither a standard nor a barrier!
Here is a same-sex couple who, from falling in love to experiencing the birth of a child, show that parenthood is possible for everyone.

A Decade of Love and Companionship
Mr. K and Mr. H are a gay couple who have been together for ten years. Mr. K grew up in Osaka, Japan, is 34 years old, and works in e-commerce. Mr. H grew up in Shizuoka, Japan, and works in the finance sector. They met while traveling, fell in love, and settled in Tokyo. Sharing many common interests, such as traveling and camping, they often take time to enjoy life together, and their relationship has remained very stable.

Deciding to Start a Family
After ten years together, from youthful beginnings to mature companionship, their everyday life, though peaceful, felt somewhat incomplete. They began to consider the possibility of “co-creating” a new life to enrich their routine. Since natural conception was not an option, they decided to pursue in vitro fertilization (IVF) to fulfill this dream. They researched IVF options online and contacted multiple fertility service providers, ultimately choosing Emfocus to guide them on their journey to parenthood.

The IVF Journey in the United States
After careful consideration, they decided to pursue legal IVF and assisted reproductive services in the United States. The first step involved semen analysis for both Mr. K and Mr. H, followed by sperm retrieval from Mr. H. Thanks to his good health and regular exercise habits, without any detrimental lifestyle factors, the process went smoothly. They then selected eggs that met their requirements. Two days before egg retrieval, both Mr. K and Mr. H traveled to the U.S. for sperm collection. In the end, 20 eggs were retrieved, resulting in 6 embryos, which underwent third-generation screening, confirming 4 males and 2 females.

Choosing the Surrogate and Embryo Transfer
After selecting a compassionate surrogate, the couple chose to transfer a male embryo. On September 22, 2023, the IVF doctor performed the transfer. Remarkably, on the 15th day after the procedure, they received the good news of a successful implantation. Both were overwhelmed with emotion, realizing the responsibility of becoming parents was about to begin.

The Arrival of Their Baby
“Becoming a parent” requires immense courage. Although they had made extensive preparations, the actual moment was far from easy. In August 2024, their baby was born safely. Reflecting on the days just before the birth, Mr. K said, “I was almost at the brink of panic. Just a few hours before the baby was born, I felt both excited and scared.”

Life as New Fathers
Now, almost a year later, their daily lives are filled with changing diapers, washing clothes, and late-night feedings. Yet, they still fully enjoy the excitement and joy of being fathers.

"As someone with PCOS, I’ve been on this journey to conceive for nearly five years. Only I know the heartache and struggles—but thankfully, my little miracle has finally arrived."

These were the heartfelt words Ms. Wang wrote to her baby. Born in 1991, she is a typical rational IT professional—efficient, independent, and steady. Her life had always been well-organized. At 25, she married Mr. Liu, her longtime partner. At the time, they agreed to focus on their careers first, and wait until everything was ready for a child.

1. Trying to Conceive: From a “Plan” to a “Battle”
By age 28, with her career gradually stable and friends starting families, Ms. Wang and her husband began eagerly anticipating a new life. Yet a year passed with no results. After a medical check, she was diagnosed with polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), a common condition affecting ovulation. Ms. Wang’s naturally cold constitution and elevated androgen levels made ovulation difficult and her menstrual cycles irregular. The doctor advised, “It’s not impossible, but chances are low.”

For the next year, she followed a strict regimen—medications, early sleep, controlled diet, traditional Chinese medicine, exercise, and nutritional supplements. She did everything possible, yet still had no good news.

2. Domestic IVF Failure Nearly Made Her Give Up
At 30, they tried IVF in their home country. The first transfer was initially successful but ended in miscarriage.

At that moment, she almost gave up. “Am I really not meant to be a mother?” she wondered.

3. Seeking Treatment Abroad: Persistence Pays Off
In 2022, a friend recommended that she contact Uterus International Medical. Following professional advice, the couple decided to travel to Thailand—a country known for high IVF success rates. Before going abroad, she completed thorough examinations at home. Based on the reports, the Thai doctors designed a tailored IVF plan. In August 2022, her IVF cycle officially began. She retrieved 28 eggs, cultivated 3 high-quality blastocysts, all of which passed genetic screening.

In October, the first embryo transfer failed.

At that moment, she truly wanted to give up. But encouraged by her consultant, she summoned the courage to try again—“One last time; if it doesn’t work, I’ll accept it.”

4. Second Transfer Success: Becoming a Mom at Last
After two months of physical and emotional preparation, she underwent the second transfer in February 2023.

In March, the pregnancy test was positive.

Tears streamed down her face when she received the call. “The doctor said the fetus is developing well—finally, there is good news. This moment made it all worth it.”

Every hopeful parent waiting for life is a gentle and courageous soul. Ms. Wang’s story reminds us that happiness may be delayed, but it never fails to arrive. IVF is not a shortcut—it is a marathon requiring immense patience, courage, and faith. And she, after five years and two transfers, finally welcomed her true miracle.

May every person on their journey to conception be treated with kindness, and may the day come when you meet the little one you’ve been longing for.

Many people might wonder: how many hurdles does a woman have to overcome to have a baby through IVF all by herself?

It can truly be said that she faces countless challenges. Ms. J, an Australian Chinese woman and a single mom, relied on her unwavering maternal determination. From financial savings to IVF preparation and finally pregnancy and childbirth, it took her six years to bring a child entirely of her own into the world.

Due to family circumstances, Ms. J has adhered to a personal philosophy of remaining unmarried. She didn’t want to enter marriage, but she deeply desired to become a mother. Motivated by this thought, she began to explore the possibilities of single motherhood, learned about IVF technology, and prepared thoroughly for her decision. Aware that single women pursuing IVF require substantial financial support, she devoted herself fully to work from her twenties onward, accumulating sufficient resources for herself and her future child.

At the age of 33, she reached out to Emfocus to start her IVF journey. In the early stage, we spoke with Ms. J over the phone more than ten times, fully understanding her requirements regarding the appearance, education, and genetics of the donor. We ultimately selected a young, high-appearance white male donor for her. Meanwhile, a personalized health and treatment plan was developed based on her condition, and Ms. J diligently took medications, adjusted her schedule, and followed a proper diet.

A month later, Ms. J traveled to the United States to begin ovarian stimulation and egg retrieval. She retrieved 10 eggs, which formed 3 blastocysts. Unfortunately, none of these embryos passed genetic screening due to chromosomal abnormalities. In response, her IVF doctor carefully revised the protocol, and three months later, she underwent another egg retrieval and embryo cultivation cycle, ultimately producing four viable embryos for transfer—two boys and two girls.

In May 2023, Ms. J had her first embryo transfer. Lying on the operating table, she was both nervous and excited. The waiting process was long and agonizing. Unfortunately, the embryo did not implant successfully, and repeated failures made it difficult for her to stay positive. Her IVF doctor conducted a detailed consultation with her to restore her confidence. After adjustments, the second transfer was arranged, and on the 15th day post-transfer, under everyone’s hopeful anticipation, Ms. J’s blood test confirmed a successful pregnancy!

In May 2024, with the help of her doctors, Ms. J gave birth to a healthy and adorable baby girl. Sharing her joy, Ms. J said:

“This little life has made my world more complete and beautiful. Looking back on this journey, I am deeply grateful for my decision and persistence. Following your own path will eventually lead to blossoming flowers.”